Isteri kedua membawa rahmat seluruh alam sampai sekarang: Saidatina Siti Hajar RadhiAllahu anha. Air zam-zam terpancar daripada tanah kering lagi gersang ganjaran Allah Subhana Wa Taala berkat kesabaran beliau berlari antara safa dan marwa mencari air untuk anaknya. Rukun haji iaitu saie antara Safa & Marwa is a tribute to her action running back and forth from Safa & Marwa searching water for her son.
In Malaysia, second wives (any wife but not the first wife) are generally being ostracised and accused of being home wreckers. (No guys I am not going to be a second, third or first wife. I prefer to be the ONLY wife ). I understand why some single mothers choose to be second/third/fourth wives. It is not easy being a single mum in a Malay society.Semua tak kena, serba tak kena. However, to me, for peace of mind, singledom is bliss.
Tapi ada juga janda dah beranak pinak gatal puki merenyam dengan laki orang, bila dah jadi second wife, she plays the victim! There are divorcees who are gold diggers cum sluts! Stupid horny men fall for these sluts!!!!
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